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GET USED TO WORKING HARD TO BE AVERAGE

by the student editors of LEAPING FROM PUBLIC HIGH TO A TOP U., a Students Helping Students™ guide


“Not being the best student was hard for me at first. When I arrived, I was blown away by how talented my classmates were—in academics, sports, music, other things. The one thing that I could do well was work hard and get good grades. But everyone else could, too.”

Sophomore,
Brown University


A dean at a top private university once said to the parents of incoming freshmen: “We’ve never been able to fix the fact that half of the class is in the bottom half!” If you made it into your school you were probably never even close to the bottom half of anything (except maybe the swimming pool) in your entire life. Well, you might have to get used to it because, chances are, you’ll end up in the bottom half of one of your classes.

This isn’t fun and it’s not something that’s easy to get used to. But try to recognize that scoring the mean or below the mean doesn’t mean you’re a bad student or that you’re stupid. Don’t beat yourself up for it. Remember that you’re competing with some of the best students at one of the best universities. Some of your classmates who went to private or prep schools may be initially better prepared to deal with the academic challenges.

In fact, one of the biggest advantages that private high school students have on their side is confidence. They’re used to dealing with advanced classes and complex subjects, to talking before small classes filled with bright students. They know how to make up for any lack of understanding with confidence. You may have the best ideas in the world, but if you don’t present them well, it will be hard for others to understand and appreciate them.

“Like any college student, you must be prepared to work a lot harder than you did in high school. Depending on what your high school was like, you may have to work even harder than the average student. But remember that there is a reason why you've been accepted to this school.”

Sophomore,
Dartmouth College


Don’t be intimidated by your classmates, but do pay attention to what they say and how they say it. You will learn soon enough how to take a tiny piece of knowledge and expand it into a full-scale argument. Pay attention to the people who seem to give well-crafted responses in discussion sections or in class. How do they present their arguments? What makes their arguments compelling? It can take a while to gain enough confidence to speak comfortably in class, but give yourself time, be observant of how other people present their thoughts, and take some chances.

“Private school grads were a lot more confident in philosophical discussions in my section freshman year. After all, they were more familiar with that format and had often been exposed to readings of Mill, Kant, and Aristotle in high school.”

Junior,
Harvard University


It might take some time for you to figure out how to excel in your new rigorous academic environment, but you will figure it out. Keep reminding yourself that if you’re smart enough to get into your university, you’re smart enough to do well.

Be patient. Don’t be too proud to ask for help from your professors, advisors, or teaching assistants when you need it. And don’t despair if you get a grade that you’ve never seen before--it will definitely get better.


Copyright © 2003 by NATAVI GUIDES.
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